Thursday, May 15, 2014

Legoland Resort Malaysia Review

Note: Excuse the “weird” language. Dah lama tak post. :p


Alhamdulillah, last February, we had the opportunity to spend a weekend at the Legoland Nusajaya, Johor, staying at the Legoland Hotel. we decided to take the kids there, since we cancelled off having a party for them this year.


Finding our way there.
Our journey from Puchong to Johor started after lunch, and took almost five hours since we had to make several stops, to rest and recharge, as well as to clean up the “mess” as the little one threw up twice from Ayer Keroh to Nusajaya, and once more upon arriving at the hotel parking. Moral of the story: Do not feed your toddler ice cream (dairy) on a road trip if you’re not sure of his reaction!! I learnt that the bad way, obviously, as we had to wash his car seat cover, the roof of the car, the seats and many more things upon arrival, and still had to bear with the stench from the vomit all the way home. Sigh!~

For me the Legoland Resort was lovely. We arrived on a Friday afternoon, a week after a major holiday so the place was pretty quiet. We love the huge lego warriors that greeted us at the entrance, the decor at the lobby was both amazing and amusing, and the kids enjoyed running around and playing with the lego pieces placed in several locations around the lobby. Check-in was a breeze but payment had to be made upfront if i’m not mistaken.

The rooms were decorated according to themes, three all in all in this resort. There’s the pirate, adventure and kingdom theme. We chose the adventure theme as we thought the room looked brighter and the kids might enjoy it more. Going up to the room, we had a surprise upon entering the lift as a disco ball lighted up and a disco song played as soon as the lift door closes. Disco dancing in (Legoland resort) lifts had been our norm ever since. Well, except for that one time when hubby went down with the kids (sans moi) and the little one vomited all over the lift. Another moral of the story: Tak payah nak menari2 kalau anak belum recover from motion sickness.


A Lego Knight greeting us at the entrance from the parking.
 Kalau notice, di belakang knight ni parking area untuk hotel guest.

Lego cowboy.
Lift lobby (at the Adventure Rooms floor)
Lift opens and..... Disco baybeee!!

The rooms were decently sized and offer privacy for the parents, since the bunk bed and the king-sized bed were separated by a lockable sliding door. There were 2 tv sets, one at the bunk bed area and the other one at the king sized bed area, other regular hotel amenities, a treasure box, which the children get to unlock upon solving a treasure map, and a lego duplo set. Memang best the way the resort thinks about little children. Even the toilet has 2 wash basins/sinks with different heights complete with mirrors and plastic glasses.

The bunk bed.
Media centre at the kid's bunks.
To the right of this media centre is a sliding door that opens to the king bed area, with its own TV. Yeay!

The small roof top swimming pool.
Malam tu we just had dinner at the restaurant downstairs. Makan is a bit of a problem if you don’t go out. Don’t fret though. There’s a street mall just outside the hotel (walking distance, about 2 minutes, not that tiring) that has quite a number of fast food restaurants (will elaborate further).

There area 2 restaurants at the resort. One is a family restaurant that serves buffet all day. Breakfast, lunch and dinner. If you decide to have lunch and dinner there, you don’t have a choice but to go for buffet as they don’t take a la carte orders. The other restaurant is a fine dining restaurant but we have been advised by the concierge that the restaurant is non halal. Since it was late, makan la buffet dinner. The buffet spread for dinner was pretty good with a variety of choices. They even have a chocolate fountain for the desserts, but i didn’t quite enjoy it much for some reason. Don’t know why.

We had an early start the next day, of course to enjoy the park as early as possible. Had buffet breakfast (included in the package), again the food is just mediocre. Spread is good, but taste is so-so. Soon after that, dashed to the park and got in line at the turnstiles by 9.20-ish (park opens at 9.30 if i’m not mistaken.)


Legoland!!
At park opening, there was a welcome dance by the staff as well as 2 characters from the Lego Movie, Emmet and the ninja girl (sorry.. haven't watched the movie, don’t know her name.) After entering through the turnstiles, we proceeded directly to the boating school to avoid the crowd. I recommend getting the park tickets online as you can get a 20% discount for advance purchase (at least a week before).

Surprisingly the park wasn’t that busy on that particular Saturday. The longest wait was around 10 minutes, which was for ta second round of he boating school, later that day. The little girl enjoyed driving school tremendously as she get to drive a lego car on her own, and get her very own lego license. Other rides that we went on were the Flying School, Dragon’s Apprentice (little roller coaster) and this knight riding on the horse thingy.

We had lunch at the Pizza place within the park, and the little boy had a good play at the Duplo play area. Lunch was standard theme park price (read: expensive) but the taste was ok. There was a quartet singing during lunch at the restaurant.

After lunch, we got back to the hotel for rest, prayers and naps, and returned to the park later in the evening until the park closes at 8pm to repeat the rides that we liked, walking through Miniland and Lego shopping. Quite spoilt for choice of the many Lego stuffs at the shops dotted around the park.

We had dinner at the street mall just a leisure walking distance across the park. There were KFC, Burger King and The Chicken Rice Shop just to name a few. After that, back to hotel and crashed.


The street mall across Legoland entrance.
Some of the shops in the mall.
Next morning, breakfast and check out. Check out is early, at 11.00 a.m. After checking out, we headed home but made a pit stop at the JPO for window shopping and lunch. After that, looong drive home.

Itulah dia, a short (kah?) snippet of our Legoland Visit. The kids enjoyed it tremendously. Even the little one can’t stop talking about riding on the boat and the car (although bukan dia boleh drive the car pun.. duduk dalam lego car yang tak bergerak kat luar driving school tu je pun). Alhamdulillah, no more vomiting drama going home. :D

Kalau ada budget lebih, I highly recommend a stay at the Legoland Resort. At least dekat jugak kalau nak balik rehat tengah hari, and it’s a very fun resort, a little different from your usual hotel environment. As for the park, I think one day is enough to cover the park, if the park is not that busy. Tapi tu dry park je la, tak termasuk water park. Kalau nak pergi water park sekali, maybe dua hari la kot. Bear in mind that it can get very hot in the park. Queueing area tu might be shaded but most attractions are not covered, so don’t forget your caps and sunblocks!

Friday, January 17, 2014

Anxiety and Disappointments.

Hmmm... life's challenges. Sometimes when it comes, it comes pouring down on you, doesn't it?

Being a mom is really wonderful. However there are times when you question yourself and your actions. Sometimes you even question if you're worthy of being a mom.. well.. maybe you don't.. but i know i do. *Sigh*

It had been two weeks now since i sent my lil boy to daycare. Not fully two weeks. Nine days to be exact. And for all those nine days, he cried and cried and cried some more. Sometimes it could be a tearless cry, but then, who knows? He comes back with a cracked voice, from calling out for mommy & daddy the whole day and this week, he even cried getting into the car in the morning to go to school. As a mother, my heart breaks looking at him being so unhappy like that. As much as i try to keep a straight face and a "dry heart" (read:hati kering), it hurts me so deeply that i question our decision to start sending him to daycare. And this weekend it's even worse because he's clinging on to me all the time and refuses to sleep/nap and cries a whole lot.

We need him to go to daycare. He needs to learn to socialise with other children and the teachers. But does he? At what expense? I can't help but to worry if this move (starting daycare) is going to scar him for life! 

We also need him to start daycare because i'm going back to work soon. That kept me thinking too that maybe all of this wouldn't have happened if i didn't take a 2-year leave. If i had just sent him to daycare when he was a baby, the transition might have been easier, like his sister. Then, as i scroll down some of the posts on Facebook, i question if i should be working in the first place. I'm basically working for myself. For back-up, should anything happen to hubby. We could still afford to get by if i don't work. Sometimes i ask myself if i'm being selfish to work instead of being a full-time mom which is supposed to be my responsibility? *Sighs again*

Comes to a point where i really don't know what to do. I leave it to the Almighty as He is the only one who knows what's best for me and my family. For now, i'll just sleep and cry it off, as and when the need arises.

Wednesday, January 08, 2014

Of Daycare, Weaning, School and such....

Happy 2014! :)

Countdown to back-to-office: about 90 days or so.

With that in mind, i've already started to send the little one (who's turning 2 end of this month) to a pre-nursery program. Where? Why.. where we sent the kaiak last time, of course. Yeah.. we liked it better before, but i guess since they have replaced the principal of the kindy, we're more comfortable sending the lil boy there, plus the timing and location is convenient for pick-ups.

He has also weaned from bf-ing during the day. I used kunyit this time around. I can't really remember how i did it last time with the kakak, but i think kunyit helped at that time too. He's getting the hang of it, although sometimes he asks for it, with a cheeky look upon his face, like trying his luck kinda thing. Heh. Good luck trying! But malam, i still allow him his fix, considering that he has the right to until he's 2 years. Will need to start to think of ways to get him to stop completely soon.. and then hubby and i can claim our bed back from that lil guy! We used the "big girls sleep in their own bed" trick with his sister. Dunno if it'll work on him.

The big kakak... Talkative as always. Siapa la dia ikut pun tak tau. Takde pulak makan tongkeng ayam like ever! Isk... Today she was telling me that her teacher told the class about Florence Nightingale... Bla..bla..bla.. tiba2 end of the story, i want a pet rabbit?? Kaitan??? Dia kata, cikgu kata Florence Nightingale used to take care of her pets and the family helper when she was sick... Baik punya mukadimah to ask for a pet. Cheh! :p

Been dropping by to the old office after sending the kids to school these couple days. Had some catching up with friends. Frustrated just listening to their stories about not-so-smart people up there. Promoting people for reasons other than their capabilities is just a recipe for disaster. Ramai orang yang tak bersalah, yang pulun kerja kuat untuk rezeki halal jade mangsa, when orang yang dinaikkan pangkat tak reti bust kerja and just dump everything to others. Dah ada pangkat, cari lagi jalan macam mana nak up lagi pangkat. Kerja la wey.. jangan kejar pangkat and RM je. Yes, money is important, but it's not everything. Yang penting rezeki tu halal. Memang la kerja makan haji tu secara lahirnya halal. Tapi kalau kerja yang dipertanggungjawabkan tu tak dijalankan, dok tai-chi lat orang, dok ngelat, mana letaknya halal haji yang diterima tiap2 bulan tu??? Takyah bangga la dengan pangkat. Dia yang bagi.. anytime Dia boleh ambil balik.

Hisy.. blogger ni pun.. What's with the auto correct?? Sigh! Malas la nak layan auto correct ni. Better retire to bed. Early morning tmrw. Soccer mom, here we go (for the next couple of months!!) :D

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

More on Kindy Search

Last week, i felt so elated because i felt that i may have find THE place to send my boy to come January 2014. I found out about that particular kindy upon stumbling on its website whilst researching for kindy in the vicinity of my workplace. 

Can't say i was impressed with the layouts of the website. However, the programs that were laid out seemed interesting, and judging from the fee structure, it probably has a cozy and enriching environment for growing children. Annnndddd... given that the person i spoke to and the language used on the website was english, i was really over the moon that this place is islamic, and at the same time uses english language as the medium of communication, and will nurture these little angels to become tahfiz.

As soon as i stepped into the facility, i was met by the person that i spoke to over the phone. We sat and she asked us on our little boy's background; who are his current caretakers, feeding schedule, allergies, etc. At this point of time i concentrated on the conversation and didn't look around the facility much. And then, just out of nowhere, that person started to explain about the fee structure. I find it odd that they charge for laundry, because from my previous experiences, no other daycares charges for that because the service wasn't provided. However, that person said that the laundry fee will be waived since my boy is "still little and they don't dirty their clothes that much". Whatever.

After the lengthy explanation on the fee structure, the conclusion was that they're charging RM400+ per month for daycare, not inclusive of diapers and milk, of course. Still oblivious of the whole area, i asked to check on the daycare area. She asked us to wait while she checks on the kids. As soon as she showed me the daycare room, all my dreams shattered! The place was pathetic!!

There were three children in there, if i was not mistaken. Two babies, i presume, were sleeping in "buai", on the floor, atop a comforter. No baby cots, no toddlers' beds, no bright and colourful posters of alphabets or animals that you usually find in a daycare. Not even toys! It was just a room with a door with a couple of comforters strewn across the floor. You don't expect little kids to spend the whole time away from their parents to be confined into such a small place with no educational toys or any activities to engage them, do you?

And for that pathetic thing that they call a daycare, they're charging RM400+ a month????? Daycares that charges RM200 probably have better facilities than that! I'm sure many parents don't mind forking out that amount of money to ensure that their children receive the best care when they're out working, but it has to be justified with the service rendered, right? Which should include the facility itself!

I am truly and utterly angry, upset and disappointed. This particular kindy promotes so much on nurturing little tahfiz, and promises to provide a good system to raise good muslim children. Seriously? In that kind of environment??? A place that looked so deprived whilst a lot of RMs are spent by parents wanting the best for their children. A load of bull if i may say.

Please lah. Stop using religion to sell your products. That's just wrong.


Thursday, October 03, 2013

Pencarian Daycare/Kindy Bermula!

Alas, the full-time housewife period is going to be over soon. Well, in about 7 more months or so, but believe me, it'll be over sooner than i might like to think. Heh.

A part of me is happy to go back to work. A part of me.. well.. not so happy.

Anyways... since dah nak mula kerja balik, sedang giat cari kindy untuk the little guy. We found this place. No big names/popular kindy franchise whatsoever. It uses the montessori method and we really liked the place. Classes are small, and i spent a couple of days there and i was quite amazed to see that the place is pretty quiet and serene for a kindy. You don't hear too much of kids screaming and teachers yelling in response. Everybody speaks softly. Truly amazing!

However... the problem is... my lil guy seemed not ready for a school environment yet. We were given 3 + 4 days free trial.. and he was only ok being left in class by himself on the first day, before he discovered that mommy and daddy will not stay with him at school. The rest of the days, i had to stay in the class with him. Huhu..

Cabaran jugak bila jaga anak sendiri full time, lepas tu nak transition dia pergi sekolah, ek?

Oleh yang demikian, i was thinking that i should leave him at home with the maid under the supervision of my in laws more often. Thus, i'm thinking of taking on tailoring classes. Bila nak buat? Tak tau. Asyik rasa berat hati nak tinggal dia. :p 

The second thing that i thought i should do is to enrol the lil guy in a playgroup of some sort. So, i scouted around for playgroups near my place, and came across this particular playgroup. I called the place and they signed me up for a trial session. To my surprise, they're charging RM50 per child per trial class!! And it's just a one hour class for God's sakes! 

I mean.. i just came from a week of trial classes in a real kindy that uses a proven method of teaching children, and the classes are around 4.5 hours a day, and they gave my kiddo a snack and lunch each day, and they didn't charge us anything! And then, this playgroup trial class wants to charge RM50 for one hour of dancing and arts and crafts??? 

I'm sorry. I can't help but feel that this particular organisation is a rip-off. To add salt to the wound, i didn't receive any reply after i texted my cancellation of joining the trial session. Masa hantar text suruh transfer duit lajuuuuu je. Dah la tu, you charge people heftily, and then you just use free service to communicate with your clients. Pakai whatsapp instead of sms service. Semua kira nak maximize profit je kan?

Sigh! Entahlah. Anyways, i found another playgroup closer to home and we're attending the trial session this Saturday. This playgroup charges RM25.. I think it's reasonable la given that this operator only offer one session a week for a class of less than 15 children. She still needs to pay for the materials and take care of her overheads kan? I get that. Tapi, takdela sampai mencekik darah kan?

Apapun, i hope to see improvements in my lil guy, and i sure hope i can enrol him into kindy come January '14. Mudahkanlah urusan kami ya Allah!


Monday, June 10, 2013

Green

Thinking out loud... 

Have you compared yourself with others and then feel bad about yourself, because you feel that you've achieved so little, whilst others so much more??

Sigh...

A self reminder - you get what you deserve to get. The Almighty knows what's best for you in the past, present , and future.

Please dear heart, do count your blessings. Silent the whispers that seeds ungratefulness.


“Is, then, He Who creates comparable to any that cannot create? Will you not, then, take heed? For should you try to count Allah’s blessings, you could never compute them…” (An-Nahl 16:17-19).




Tuesday, June 04, 2013

Battle of the Bulge

More often than not, i think most women have one issue or another with their (gasp!) weight. Too fat, too thin, too flabby, too muscular... Sigh. Once too often, women just love to pick a fight with their own bodies, whether or not there is a presence of provocation. 

And, yes. You've guessed it. I'm one of those women. I was born a normal weight infant, but my weight started to increase faster than the ideal growth rate since i was about 5 years old or so. Once that started, it never stopped. I never knew how to stop my weight from escalating. I guess, neither did my parents. 

You think being an overweight adult is hard? Try being an overweight kid. You face ridicule in every corner, not to mention the embarassment of not being able to find anything in your size in the kid's department. And, remember the weighing in that you have to do repeatedly in school? Lucky for me i attended an all-girls' school, so less ridicule from the opposite sex. (But i do still get them from inter-school activities, tuition, mengaji classes, bus rides, you get the picture, right?..oh not to forget, sharp-tongued relatives!)

So, childhood for me wasn't really the best time of my life. And i blamed that on my weight. Until now, i always feel that if only i wasn't a fat girl, i could've achieved so much more. Not that i'm not grateful with what i have now. I am. It's just that things could've been different, you know?

That said, I've vowed to always keep my kids' weight in check. So, please don't give me crap about not letting my kids enjoying life by banning candies and junk food.

Back to my battle.

I graduated from high school a whopping 75kg. I went into college, shed some weight, thanks to increased activity and self-induced bulimia. I can credit that to peer pressure (and influence). So my weight always hovered around 70 - 73 kg. Maintained that weight zone through uni. 

Had a breakthrough dieting & working out period in which i managed to get my weight down to 60 kg, eating only fruits and veg, if I'm not mistaken, and only those listed under negative calorie foods. Workout consisted of walking on a daily basis, plus aerobics every other day. But of course, the weight loss didn't last. Before long, i was back at my "comfort" weight zone.

I was at my heaviest during my second pregnancy, during my last few weeks, I think i was at 98 kg.. It felt horrible! (Not the pregnancy, only the heaviness!)

One year down the road from my second pregnancy, my weight's back to the higher end of the "comfort" zone, but I was so upset looking at my mid section. Cutting the story short, i was again embroiled into dieting, and from my research this time around i came about another diet. 

I went on this diet for 45 days. I lost almost 5kgs. My weight actually came down lower than the 70kg zone! I was (and am still) elated about the result! For now, i've already ended the diet, because i need to do my qadha' fasting before the fasting month comes, but I'm certain to go back onto this diet after Raya. I've never been quite so excited on a diet before, and somehow, being on this diet I didn't really feel like wanting to get out of it.

Anyways, I'm not describing the nature of this diet just yet, so as not to jinx it, kind of. We'll see how long this weight loss is going to last, ok?